Christie is superb in a film that’s more prudish than its reputation – and feels more sympathetic to its heroine today
Director: John Schlesinger
Cast: Julie Christie (Diana Scott), Laurence Harvey (Miles Brand), Dirk Bogarde (Robert Gold), José Luis de Vilallonga (Prince Cesare della Romita), Roland Curram (Malcolm), Basil Henson (Alec Prosser-Jones), Helen Lindsay (Felicity Prosser-Jones), Carlo Palmucci (Curzio della Romita), Alex Scott (Sean Martin), Trevor Bowen (Tony Bridges)

Perhaps no film screams “Swinging Sixties” more than Darling. Diana Scott (Julie Christie), a beautiful and charming model, decides the best way to move up the social ladder is to use those skills. She throws her first husband aside for high-brow TV journalist Robert Gold (Dirk Bogarde), before starting an affair with heartless, philandering marketing executive Miles Brand (Laurence Harvey) all while moving ever upwards. But will she learn there is nothing worse than getting what you want?
You can get a sense of how seismic it must have seemed. Darling was free and open about sex in a way very few films had been before. Today it can seem a bit coy – this is hardly Performance and most of the juicier stuff is implied – but the film starts with adultery and spirals into sex parties, orgies, couple swopping and menage a trois via bisexuality and a hint of transsexuality. What could be more sixties than that – and many at the time were excited (and tantalised) by the world of opportunity it seemed to present.
But, watching today, it hardly feels like Darling celebrates this stuff. Instead, this is a dark satire that heartily endorses the idea that behind all this hedonism is not very much at all. In fact, the most dated thing about Darling might be its air of 1950s frowning discomfort at all the naughtiness – and most of all, a disapproving frown for the ambitious young women at its heart, determined to get what she wants. It’s hard not to escape the feeling the film judges Diana harshly, while giving a pass to Bogarde’s Robert who (to be honest) is scarcely much better.
So why does the film still work – and much better than I expected? Because Schlesinger’s direction of Raphael’s arch and satirical script is inventive and playful enough to nullify the moral lecture elements. There is enough wit in the presenting of puffed-up, hypocritical powerbrokers (like Brian Wilde’s MP, breaking away from a moral sermon to drool over Diana) as two-faced meanies to sooth the moral pronouncements. In fact, with so many elements of that, its possible (and, arguably, hard for a modern viewer not to) to say ‘good on you’ to Diana for chancing her hand.
It’s also hard not to sense Darling taking pops at Diana’s middle-class sister and her husband – so constrained, they apologise to each other in bed – or the pretentious bores at an art gallery or the tedious self-importance of a Waugh-ish author who Robert idolises (and Diana finds boring as shit). This tone of spreading the mockery makes the film feel far even-handed (if a little scattergun). It even has a go at the conservative British public (actual real people) who, in Bogarde’s vox-pop interviews, blame laziness, immigrants and homosexuality for all the faults of Britain in 1965 (how times change).
Take all that into account and balance it against the strength of the performances, with Julie Christie astonishingly good as Diana. Winning an Oscar, Christie bursts at the seams with charisma and wit, making it almost impossible to dislike her, even when part of the film is appalled by her. Christie makes Diana witty, smart but also vulnerable, her manipulation of people is more instinctive than overt and there’s a great deal of sadness in her. She’s a lonely woman who believes being the centre of the attention will cure that feeling – whereas, in fact, the more she does so, the lonely she feels. And it leads to self-destructive behaviour that destroys relationships she cares about.
That loneliness surprisingly powers a lot of the film, giving Darling a sad after-taste. There is something very tender in Diana breaking down in tears at a photography session. Christie brilliantly plays her anxiety at finding the ‘classy’ Parisian joint Miles has taken her is a borderline sex party, translating itself into a desire to fit in, culminating in a burst of childlike delight when she has a hit in a mean-spirited game of abusive comments. And Darling gifts a fantastic scene to Christie near its conclusion, as Diana undergoes a near breakdown in her gilded Italian mansion prison, ripping furnishings, smashing ornaments as she collapses into self-loathing misery.
It’s this tenderness that underpins – or rather undermines – the film’s satirical ticking off for Diana that keeps it entertaining today. Not to mention it’s harder today to find as much sympathy (as I suspect the film wants) for Bogarde’s Robert. Bogarde is very good as this middle rung on society’s ladder, a guy who loves the idea of a hot young mistress but who slips quickly into cardigan-wearing dullness, becoming the same humiliated cuckold told transparent lies by Diana and her lover as her made her first husband.
But Robert is also a hypocrite, cowardly walking out on his family without a backward glance and seeing no irony at all in his own practised ease at planning affairs (he even knows you need to bring a stuffed suitcase to your hotel assignations). And while the film finds a silent disapproval for Diana’s abortion, it’s hard not to notice that Robert is hardly doing cartwheels when she announces her pregnancy.

Surprisingly it’s actually easier to see the shallow Miles as the most honest person in the film. Played with an ice-cold distance by Laurence Harvey (vocally partly channelling Richard Burton), Miles may be a cad but at least he never pretends to be anything else. While every other man spins Diana a self-aggrandising story, Miles openly treats their relationship as transactional and never lies. It says a lot for Darling’s view of its era that the most honest man is a morality-free advertising executive.
He fits in neatly into a world where anything important is roundly ignored. The film opens with Diana’s latest billboard being pasted over a Third World hunger campaign; Diana later presents prizes at a charity fundraiser for this campaign, where the wealthy hoi polloi are more interested in stuffing their faces and gambling (and the only Black people in attendance are servants – one upper class pervert lasciviously asks if they are ‘available’, like they are items on a menu).
On top of this, Diana keeps up a running voiceover commentary, frequently blatantly contradicting her actions on screen. But her tone is so breezy and blissfully guilt-free that, again, it’s a little hard not to warm to her – even as she claims ignorance for deeds we see her carrying out. Schlesinger frequently demonstrates the irony of this spun version of her life.
In all, there is much to enjoy in Darling – more than I was in fact expecting. It’s extremely handsomely filmed (there is a great shot of Diana striding down Miles’ boardroom table from a low angle and a lovely day-to-night cut at a harbour that really stands out) and has some very sharp lines, blessed by a fantastic performance by Christie and great character turns from Bogarde and Harvey. I suspect part of the interest now is delving down into the deeper implications of the film. What may have once been seen as a dark celebration of freedom, now feels at point judgemental and prudish – but, to counter that, its lead now feels less like an amoral temptress and more of a confused and lost tragic soul with genuine warmth. It’s a test case in how time can both define and change perceptions of a film.
























